Facing Adversity The Roman poet Horace said, "Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents, which in prosperous circumstances would have lain dormant." In the past year and a half of high school, I have had two large adversities to overcome. Both have altered my life permanently in some way or another.Sometimes I get depressed about what I have been forced to miss, but other times I am happy to see what I am capable of. I wonder what I would not have known about myself. The first adversity that I experienced came during the fourth week of football on September 10, 2001. I had been playing since freshmen year. I was hit, the next thing I knew, I could not move my leg. I had dislocated my left hip, an injury rarely seen. The doctor told me that I would need surgery to put the bone back in, and I might have to get a plastic hip. I was told that playing football was out and basketball and track were questionable. I refused to believe that an injury could stop me despite what the doctors and everyone close to me said. I was determined to prove them wrong. I started therapy right away. I worked with the trainer just about every day after school doing exercises to get stronger. I could not stay away from basketball though, consequently, I became the manager. I went to all the games and most practices in between therapy. With the other manager, we started the first-ever basketball program to be sold at home games. I also got a part time job at Corwin's Pharmacy. After seven months of therapy, I was finally able to join the track team. The trainer called it a medical miracle recovery, and he said we should have written down all the exercises we did for a medical journal. I was happy to be involved in sports again. Then on July 29, I faced my second adversity. On July 29, I went to see my doctor. Not because of my hip, but because of a chest pain I had. The doctor thought it was nothing, but gave me an EKG. That night I spent in the hospital. The cardiologist told me I had some sort of heart enlargement and I had to go see a specialist. The first specialist I saw said it was the same heart disease that my mother has, hypertrophic cardiomyopothy (thickening of the heart muscles). He said that I must stop all sports and strenuous activity. The disease could trigger an arrhythmia, which could kill me. He also said only a pacemaker could save my life. We wanted a second opinion, and this doctor wanted to do more tests. I still am testing with him. It has been about three months since I had the pain and I am slowly getting used to not playing sports. I still go to all the football games, and I look forward to being the basketball team manager. I have joined the school newspaper, student government, and I have become active in National Honor Society. I also plan on joining Spanish Honor Society. I really enjoy being active in my school. For homecoming week I even came to school dressed up as Santa Clause. Still, I cannot describe how much I miss sports and the way I feel standing on the sideline looking at all of my friends in football pads. I have pressed on and tried to make the best of my situation. I learned not to take things for granted like being able to walk. I also learned what kind of friends I have when the whole football team came to my house after I got out of the hospital. I learned not to let feeling sorry for myself stop me. More recently, I have learned that I have a very loving family. Sometimes, I wonder about giving in to adversity. I wonder about what talents I might not have found in myself. The thought of giving up and not achieving my full potential, therefore letting others and myself down, drives me every day. View more articles | Information provided by collegeanduniversity.net |