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Being Judgmental

I strongly dislike the way that people walk by you like they know you and they don't. It just makes you want to breakdown in tears. This is uncalled for, because no one deserves to be judged, but people come to think that that's not true, but really it is. It doesn't matter about who you are on the outside, but it does in the inside (the inner you). Just by being judgmental towards another can cause lots of damage and sometimes even a big change in themselves and life as well. Judging can be very hurtful to others in many different ways.

One-way is telling someone that they're ugly because of the way the dress or that they're skanky because of where they live. I mean, come on, I don't think anybody likes to be put down in those kind of ways even if you do or don't know them. I don't see how after you're hurtful to one and then another you can be fine with yourself. People sometimes can't help who they are and you don't make it any better by being judgmental.

Sometimes being judgmental can also breakdown a friendship. People don't think before they take action upon what they are doing or are going to do before they do it, and they don't think it can ruin a friendship, but watch someday- you'll see that it really can. You need to watch out, because if you're one of those judgmental people and are hurtful to others, then you might be that someone to lose a friend(s). Your friends might might think swell of you like they did when you first met, but once they see you act this way towards another, they might not think of you as that kind of person anymore. When you lose that friend, that's just another one to look for and could be hard if you're a judgmental person. I

f you're seeking and you don't find, then maybe it will come to you and you'll know that what you or another is doing or is going to do is wrong and you'll finally realize the total wrongness in what is going on.

So if you are one of these judgmental people, then you should change before the going gets tough and the tough gets going. If you don't end up changing, then you might find the road that you're beginning to travel get a little bit rough and as you grow up and you still haven't learned your lesson of being judgmental, then the rockier your road that you traveling down gets rougher.

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